Reading the body language of a man can start the
minute he walks into a room. Entering a room with a slow walk and
few movements indicates self confidence. The more movements a man
makes when he walks the more he is unsure of himself. When a
confident man sits down he will immediately place something nearby
to mark his territory. It could be a lighter or cigarettes, or a
drink or some coins. Here are some tips on reading a man's body
language when the conversation starts.
1) If a man sits with his face pointed directly
at you and his body is turned away he is saying he is not
comfortable yet and is unsure about getting into your space. As the
conversation warms up and he loosens up he will face you directly
with his whole body signifying he is getting more comfortable with
you.
2) Watch his eyes. If you find him staring at
you longer than normal then he is letting you know he is interested
in you. If he flashes his eyebrows he might be showing an interest.
3) If he smiles and is joking around he is
having a good time. If he lowers is voice and is trying to sound
seductive you know what that means. Men tend to be more jovial when
they are having a good time.
4) If he folds his arms he is creating a barrier
between himself and you. When his arms form no barrier he is
inviting you into his space. You can tell how relaxed he is by the
position of his shoulders. If he is standing tall with his shoulders
forward he is relaxed and confident.
5) Men flirt with their hands. If he is putting
his thumbs into his pockets with his hands pointing down he is
flirting. If he is placing his hand on your arm and leaning forward
while talking he is feeling you out. If you do not pull away he will
feel comfortable leaving it there for a little bit.
6) If he leans forward with his groin or is
standing with his legs spread apart he is flirting.
Men are
normally more proactive with their body language than women are. It
is natural for him to try and control an area and a conversation.
This has been going on for generations. A smart man sends out
signals and is not pushy. His body language lets you know if he is
interested in you and he is waiting to see if you feel the same.
