As women have become liberated and career
oriented the path to a second date has become less clear. In the old
days of dating if you both had a good time the man would ask for a
second date and the women would say yes or no. Here are 6 tips to
helping you both get a second date.
1) It is still up to the man to make the
first move. Most women still expect this to be the way it is done.
If the man is a little shy he will need to overcome this for a brief
moment and go ahead and ask. Surprisingly surveys have shown that if
a man does not make the move to ask the women out and the women goes
ahead and does it will end up in a failed relationship. So women do
everything you can to let him know you are interested and then sit
tight and wait for him to ask.
2) Men you need to keep the conversation
on her as much as possible. If you want a second date you will kill
your chances if you spend most of the time talking about yourself.
This seems like common sense, but many times a self absorbed man
will blow it for himself by blabbing on and on about himself and not
really getting to know her. Don't let this be you we are talking
about.
3) When the date is over the man stills
pays. Even the most successful women appreciates a man who pays for
the first date. Not splitting the bill or letting her pay her share,
but the man pays on date one. This will help you get to date two.
4) Although it is common now for women to
call a man for the next date if you do not line it up at the end of
date one then the man should pick up the phone and call her. Ask her
out as soon as possible if you both had a good time on your first
date.
5) Be honest about how you felt about
your first date. If you had a good time let her know. Women do not
mislead him into thinking you want him to call you again if you do
not want him to.
6) No sex on date one. Many people blow
it by moving to quick. There is plenty of time for sex later in the
relationship and many people have reported that it is even better
the longer you wait.
These
are 6 tips for getting a second date that do work. You will know
during date one if you are having a good time and if you both are
going to want to go out again.
